The first time.

I remember the first time my friend told me about her kinky relationship. We were both working at an advertising agency in Amsterdam. I sat on her desk, I was glued to her story.

How he tied her up. How he would grab her into the elevator and rip her panties off. Ropes that would touch her body slowly and he watched her with his penetrating eyes.

Whuaaa - so intriguing
I want that!

But how?
I didn’t even dare to buy sexy lingerie, let alone tell my partner to spice things up in the bedroom with BDSM.

So that’s all it was
Fantasies
And reading 50 Shades of Grey

Until years later
Got out of my relationship
Quit my job
Sold our house
And left Holland to go to India

The weeks prior to my leave
I felt adventurous

I met a lover
I told him my 3 desires >
BDSM, Tantra and a threesome
And it was the best week I could imagine
Figuring it out with the props and knowledge we had back then 🙃
A little scarf to blindfold me. Another scarf to tie my hands together. Going through Tinder & our friends list together to check out who we’d want to invite for the threesome. How fun, haha.  

The best initiation of my 5 years travels ahead
Through more than 10 countries
On a journey of transmissions in sacred sexuality, conscious relating, tantra, kink, taoism, the shamanic arts

Journeys to deepest darkest blocks
Within myself
And with clients

And now that I see and feel how mastering your s/xual energy & owning your desires is the key essence of feeling so alive and being able to show up in the world - for your passion, your family, your partner - I am fully dedicated to share this with the world.

In my 1:1 Tantric Journey we take the fast track to your desired life, with stillness within, tapped into your energy. Click here to book a free Temple Space Call.

If you want to practice with a group of like minded beauties to express your desires and get them fulfilled, come join Anna Eden and me in Amsterdam for the LAST Art of Connection on Fri 16 Feb. Tickets are selling like hot cakes already! Men’s will sell out first. Grab your Early Bird here.

So much love,
Yani

Ps. What kinky things do you like? 

📸 @inspired_bybeing. Leading the Temple Night at Tantra Festival Amsterdam, supported by power women @denise_kooij & @il.se__._